by Jeanne Marie O. Bernardo
Ask me about the things I’d rather not do, and waiting tops my list.
In this hurried world where almost everything can be done in an instant, where people are always pressed for time, where everyone is trying to get ahead of everyone else, it is quite uncommon to find people who take their time, do things slowly, and wait. No wonder modern day life is also known as “the rat race.”
We think life is a race so we don’t want to waste our time. We turn ballistic when stuck in traffic. We bark at the waiter when our meal doesn’t get served on time. We are annoyed at people who come late for an appointment. We hate it when our flight is delayed. We grumble while in line at the supermarket. We complain at the doctor’s office when the queue is too long. I could go on and on, still not run out of examples, and you’d probably skip over this paragraph because you can’t wait for me to get to the point. We could be anywhere, doing anything, be with anyone, and we would still have alarm bells going off the second we are made to wait.
And these are only minor instances of waiting. How about those times when you need to wait for an answer to a prayer, for the perfect partner in life, for healing, for the right career or business opportunity? How do we fair then? If a few minutes of waiting already annoy us, how can we even try to be patient during more difficult times?
The Bible tells us that there is a reason for all our troubles (yes, that includes those long hours, or even just minutes of waiting that we hate so much).
“There’s more to come: We continue to shout our praise even when we’re hemmed in with troubles, because we know how troubles can develop passionate patience in us, and how that patience in turn forges the tempered steel of virtue, keeping us alert for whatever God will do next. In alert expectancy such as this, we’re never left feeling shortchanged. Quite the contrary—we can’t round up enough containers to hold everything God generously pours into our lives through the Holy Spirit!” (Romans 5:3-5, The Message Bible, emphasis mine)
We all have to pass through difficult periods of waiting at least once in our lives. Sometimes, it becomes so difficult to bear that we just want to throw our hands up and give up. But GOD knows what we go through. HE knows what we are waiting for. HE knows how hard we have worked. HE knows how much we have sacrificed. But our waiting is never in vain, if we have faith in GOD and HIS promises, and if we allow the HOLY SPIRIT to empower us and give us strength.
Remember Abraham in the Bible? He was 99 when GOD promised him a son. And he and his wife Sarah had to wait 25 years for GOD to fulfill HIS promise. But Abraham never complained. HE held on to that promise because he knew that GOD would deliver.
“And so after waiting patiently, Abraham received what was promised.” (Hebrews 6: 15, NIV, emphasis mine)
GOD did not disappoint Abraham, and neither will HE disappoint us. During those times when all we can do is wait, let us take that as an opportunity to seek GOD, and HE will deliver us because we ask. HE wants us to make productive use of our time. What could be more productive than taking the time to wait on HIM?
“I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and in his word I put my hope.” (Psalm 130: 5, NIV)
Waiting on GOD is an art. The more you immerse yourself in it, the more enjoyable it becomes. And true appreciation comes only when we realize the beauty and purpose in it.




